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Sex hurt until I realised the reason why

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Nobuhle N Nyoni writes about bad sex and how she mistakenly assumed the absence of happy endings were par for the course.  


Growing up, the advice our aunties gave about having good sex was: “Pull your labia to make the sex better and learn how to whine that waist”. I skipped the labia one but definitely practiced the whine – I had to be somewhat ready. 

THE ESSAY
 

Nobuhle N Nyoni writes about bad sex and how she mistakenly assumed the absence of happy endings were par for the course.  

Growing up, the advice our aunties gave about having good sex was: "Pull your labia to make the sex better and learn how to whine that waist". I skipped the labia one but definitely practiced the whine – I had to be somewhat ready . . .

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